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Every legacy has a starting point. Spanning decades and the breadth of the American landscape, this intimate memoir begins with the vivid, episodic memories of a childhood shaped by rural identity and family lore.

The narrative moves with a panoramic, multi-decade sweep, held together by a singular, persistent throughline: the work of staying put. This "long-form temporal sweep" follows a family through distinct life stages, from the unique culture of Navy submarine deployments to the urgent, existential stakes of sudden medical crises. It is an observational and candid exploration of resilience, where the concrete scenes of survival are found in hospital waiting rooms, ICU vigils, and the relentless advocacy required for parenting neurodiverse children.

From the quiet rituals of Lake Wenatchee camping to the ethically complex decisions of marriage strain and repair, The Unbreakable Anchor chronicles the reclamation of identity across the decades. Grounding the five-book Before the Anchor Legacy, it asks the essential question that resonates through every decade: Who, or what, is the anchor?.

The Unbreakable Anchor

  • Status: In Final Revision 

  • Genre: Multigenerational Memoir

  • Scope: Multi-Decade Chronological

  • Setting: WA | CA | FL | GA

  • Keywords: Military Life, Neurodiversity, Medical Crisis

  • Themes: Caregiving, Resilience, & Marriage

  • For Fans of: The Glass Castle & When Breath Becomes Air

  • Book Club Packet

  • Explore: [#unbreakableanchor]

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A 5-Book Historical Saga

Featured Lead: Book One

The Sunstone Path

“Before the anchor was forged, a path was found.”

The Description: A legacy is a map of survival that begins long before we are born. The Sunstone Path opens with a 1993 prologue, bridging the gap between a modern search for identity and the deep-rooted history of those who came before. This first installment of a five-book biographical saga follows the author’s great-grandparents, Regina and Albert, as they leave the fjords of Norway for the untamed horizons of the American Midwest.

As a work of Immigrant & Pioneer Fiction, it uncovers the raw existential stakes of homesteading and survival in Minnesota and the Dakotas. It is the beginning of a century-long search for home—a journey that travels through the Ballard fishing industry and the Nazi occupation of Norway before finally coming full circle in the contemporary heart of The Unbreakable Anchor.

Before the Anchor Series

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  • Status: In-Progress 

  • Narrative Style: Biographical Historical Fiction

  • Protagonists: Regina & Albert (TJ's Great-Grandparents)

  • Setting: Norway > Ellis Island > The Midwest (MN, SD, ND)

  • Series Role: Book 1 of 5

  • For Fans of: Little House on the Prairie, Lonesome Dove

  • Book Club Packet

  • Explore: #beforetheanchor, #thesustonepath

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    The Before the Anchor Series

                     (In Development)

  • ⚓ Book One — The Sunstone Path                                                                                                 (Research and Planning)         

  • ⚓ Book Two — The Road from Seattle


  • ⚓ Book Three —The Ballard Fleet


  • ⚓ Book Four — The Shetland Crossing 


  • ⚓ Book Five — The Heart of the Valley 

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