To understand life in the Dakotas at the turn of the twentieth century is to understand endurance. The plains were vast, beautiful, and unapologetically harsh. For the wave of settlers staking claims across North and South Dakota in the early 1900s, survival wasn't an abstract ideal. It was measured in cords of wood cut before November, bushels of potatoes stored deep in root cellars beneath the frost line, and the resilience of a tight-knit community. The land demanded everything. Settlers contended with brutal winter blizzards that buried claim shacks to their eaves, blinding summer dust, sudden prairie fires, and illnesses like influenza and diphtheria that traveled faster than doctors could reach rural claims. On the largely treeless prairie, even keeping a stove burning required ingenuity. Families sometimes burned twisted prairie hay, corncobs, or dried manure when firewood was scarce. Between the Second Dakota Boom and the expansion of the northern transcontinental railroads, the prairie filled with an extraordinary blend of cultures. Norwegian, Swedish, Danish, German, and Austrian immigrants established homesteads across the Dakotas, bringing generations of agricultural knowledge, family traditions, and a strong sense of community. An early 1900s prairie church picnic, where neighbors gathered to share food and strengthen community ties. Historical recreation. Communities coalesced around two primary sanctuaries: the church and the kitchen table. In some settlements, immigrants preserved the language and liturgy of the old country, and Lutheran and Roman Catholic congregations maintained their own close-knit traditions. Yet survival on the prairie demanded cooperation. Neighbors helped neighbors raise barns, thresh grain, and dig graves in frozen soil. During harvest, women prepared enormous meals for traveling threshing crews, sometimes feeding workers five times a day. Meanwhile, root cellars filled with potatoes and vegetables, and kitchens bustled with pickling, preserving, and preparing for the long winter ahead. Feeding a family was no small undertaking, and the labor performed inside the home was every bit as essential as the work in the fields. In Regina's journey in the Sunstone Path, this frontier reality takes center stage. From the bustling railroad neighborhoods, to the open prairie homesteads, she encountered a world where immigrants carried their traditions from one home to the next. She learned that while language might falter across property lines, food was an immediate, common vernacular. Recipes traveled with families, adapted to new circumstances, and became part of the next generation's inheritance. Among those traditions, carried forward to my grandmother, was a simmering kettle of Knoephla Soup. A hearty pot of homemade Knoephla soup, bringing an old prairie tradition into today's kitchen. Pronounced “NEF-la” (from the German Knöpfle, meaning "little buttons"), this thick, creamy dumpling soup became a beloved staple of German-Russian prairie cooking. Its humble ingredients reflected the realities of immigrant life: root-cellar potatoes, flour, milk, and whatever fat could be spared. When the autumn prairie winds turned bitter, a pot of Knoephla simmering on a cast-iron stove could stretch modest pantry staples into a meal rich enough to sustain a family after ten hours in the fields. Traditionally, the dumplings were made from a simple dough, rolled into ropes and snipped into small pieces before being dropped into simmering broth. Like so many immigrant recipes, each household developed its own variation, shaped by available ingredients and generations of family tradition. Over the decades, Knoephla has evolved, picking up aromatic herbs, sweet root vegetables, and smokiness from bacon while retaining its pillowy dumpling core. It remains the ultimate ode to autumn: hearty, grounding, and steeped in the grit of the women who built homes out of sod and hope. Prairie-Style Knoephla Soup A rich, creamy potato soup laden with tender, herb-flecked dumplings. Hearty, nostalgic, and built to warm you to your boots. Prep time: 25 mins Cook time: 35 mins Servings: 6 to 8 Ingredients The Soup Base 4 slices thick-cut bacon, chopped (or 2 tbsp butter for vegetarian) 4 tbsp unsalted butter 1 medium yellow onion, finely diced 2 medium carrots, peeled and diced 2 stalks celery, diced 3 cloves garlic, minced 1/3 cup all-purpose flour 6 cups low-sodium chicken broth (or vegetable broth) 3 cups Yukon Gold potatoes, peeled and cut into 1/2-inch cubes 2 dried bay leaves 1 cup heavy cream Kosher salt and freshly cracked black pepper, to taste The Dumplings (Knoephla) 1 cup all-purpose flour 1 tbsp baking powder 1 tsp kosher salt 1 tbsp fresh parsley, finely minced 1 tbsp fresh dill, finely minced 1 tsp fresh thyme leaves 1/2 cup whole milk 1 large egg, lightly beaten Instructions Step 1: Crisp the Bacon & Sauté the Aromatics In a large Dutch oven or heavy-bottomed stockpot, cook the chopped bacon over medium heat until browned and crisp (about 6–8 minutes). Remove the bacon with a slotted spoon and set aside, leaving the drippings in the pot. Melt the butter directly into the bacon drippings. Add the diced onion, carrots, and celery. Sauté over medium heat for 6 to 8 minutes until the vegetables soften and the onions turn translucent. Stir in the minced garlic and cook for about 60 seconds until fragrant. Step 2: Build the Broth Sprinkle the 1/3 cup of flour evenly over the sautéed vegetables. Cook, stirring constantly, for 1 to 2 minutes to cook out the raw flour flavor. Slowly pour in the chicken broth, whisking constantly to prevent lumps from forming. Add the cubed potatoes, bay leaves, 1 teaspoon of kosher salt, and 1/2 teaspoon of cracked black pepper. Bring the soup to a boil, then reduce the heat to medium-low, cover partially, and simmer for 12 to 15 minutes, until the potatoes are just fork-tender. Step 3: Mix the Dumpling Dough While the soup simmers, prepare the dumplings. In a medium bowl, whisk together the flour, baking powder, kosher salt, parsley, dill, and thyme. In a separate small measuring cup, whisk the milk and egg together. Pour the wet ingredients into the dry ingredients and stir with a wooden spoon or fork just until combined. (The dough should be sticky, soft, and drop-able. Do not overmix, or the dumplings will become dense.) Step 4: Drop the Dumplings & Simmer Remove the bay leaves from the simmering pot. Using two small teaspoons (or a small cookie scoop), drop small, bite-sized portions of batter (about the size of a marble or hazelnut) directly into the gently simmering soup. Dip your spoons into the hot broth occasionally to keep the dough from sticking. Once all the dough is dropped, cover the pot with a tight-fitting lid and simmer undisturbed over low heat for 8 to 10 minutes. The dumplings will float to the top and plump up considerably. Step 5: Finish and Serve Stir in the heavy cream and reserved crispy bacon. Let the soup warm through over low heat for 2 to 3 minutes without letting it reach a rolling boil. Taste and adjust seasoning with additional kosher salt and cracked black pepper as needed. Ladle into warm bowls and garnish with extra fresh dill or parsley. Serve immediately. Historical & Baker's Notes Traditional vs. Drop Dumpling: Traditional German-Russian Knoephla dough was often rolled into thin ropes and snipped directly into the pot with kitchen shears to form small buttons. This drop-batter variation yields a lighter, fluffier dumpling that readily absorbs the savory cream broth. A Note on the Dough: The dough should be soft and pliable, slightly tacky but not sticky. Add the milk gradually, using only as much as needed to bring the dough together. If it becomes too wet, work in a little additional flour until you can comfortably knead, roll, and cut it into small pieces. Let the texture guide you rather than relying strictly on measurements. Potato Choice: Yukon Golds are ideal because they hold their neat cubical shape through simmering while releasing just enough starch to enrich the broth's silkiness. The recipes our ancestors carried across oceans were more than a way to put food on the table. They were reminders of home, adapted to new ingredients, shared with neighbors, and passed from one generation to the next. A simple bowl of Knoephla Soup tells a story of hardship, resourcefulness, and the communities built around a common table. More than a century later, those traditions still have a place in our kitchens. The stories don't end at the table. Subscribe to The Anchor, my monthly newsletter, for more family history, immigrant traditions, and a behind-the-scenes look at the stories inspiring my historical fiction series, Before the Anchor. -TJ Nilsdatter

Every sprawling family tree has its share of loud branches. There are the natural storytellers, the adventurers who plunge headfirst into questionable schemes, and the stubborn forces of nature who would rather walk five miles than admit they might be wrong. Those larger-than-life personalities tend to dominate our family legends, providing the punchlines, unforgettable mishaps, and stories retold for generations. But somewhere along the edges of those memories, you'll often find someone else. Someone who isn't competing for the spotlight but somehow manages to keep everyone moving in the same direction. In our family, that person has always been Uncle Dean. Uncle Dean, the quiet anchor of our family. In fact, readers of The Unbreakable Anchor will meet him in the very first chapter. I was just a little girl when my father and Uncle Dean found themselves navigating a rather precarious situation on the Wenatchee River. What began as an ordinary family outing became one of those adventures that would find its way into family legend. I'll leave the details for the book, but it's a fitting introduction to two very different personalities and the unpredictable circumstances our family so often found itself in. My love of photography began with Uncle Dean. A Navy veteran and professional photographer, his career took him to exotic destinations around the world, capturing places and experiences most of us could only dream of visiting. Growing up, I looked up to him in just about every way. He was patient, practical, and remarkably dependable, qualities that were especially valuable in a family overflowing with strong personalities. He also became our unofficial family historian, documenting weddings, holidays, camping trips, and generations of children growing up. Long before everyone carried a camera in their pocket, Uncle Dean was making sure our memories wouldn't be forgotten. Although he married into our family through my mother's sister, Aunt Connie, Uncle Dean has been part of my life for as long as I can remember. I was the flower girl at their wedding, never imagining how many important moments we would share in the decades ahead. When Alex and I married, none of his family attended, and only one of his friends was there. We asked Uncle Dean to stand beside him as a groomsman. Years later, when my own son married, Uncle Dean volunteered to photograph the wedding. Three generations of weddings, with my uncle playing a special part in each one. Uncle Dean capturing the memories at my son's wedding. Some of my fondest childhood memories involve our family Christmas Eve gatherings at Grandma's house. Every year, Santa Claus would make a special appearance, much to the delight of the children. What we didn't know, at least when we were little, was that Santa had a rotating cast. Uncle Dean and my father took turns every other year putting on the red suit and making their grand entrance. Between the two of them, they kept the Christmas magic alive, giving us another tradition that would become part of our family's holiday memories. His reputation extended well beyond our immediate family. Even my father's parents made a point of visiting Uncle Dean and Aunt Connie when they traveled to California. And when I attended the same high school he had graduated from twenty years earlier, teachers who remembered him spoke with genuine admiration when they discovered he was my uncle. I had always thought the world of him, but it was wonderful to discover how many others felt the same way. My paternal grandparents visiting Uncle Dean and Aunt Connie in California in the 1970s. Of course, being part of our family required a healthy dose of patience. My father could be stubborn, and my grandfather had a remarkable talent for testing everyone's limits. When Grandpa decided to build a deck, he managed to chase away his other sons-in-law with his complaining, but Uncle Dean stayed and helped my dad finish the job. He was often the one calming heated tempers, offering practical solutions, or simply knowing when to let someone cool off. When my dad’s truck broke down, on the way to a camping trip, and left his travel trailer stranded beside the highway, Uncle Dean took his own truck to tow it to the campground without question. He was the person everyone knew they could call. Outside of family emergencies and his photography, Uncle Dean loved fishing, camping, and spending time outdoors. He knew his way around an RV and could be just as much a part of the family fun as anyone else. While he was generally the calmest person in the room, he wasn't entirely immune to losing his patience, although those occasions were few and far between. What distinguished him wasn't perfection. It was his willingness to show up, time and again, whenever someone needed him. Uncle Dean along with my dad, Ranger Rick, enjoying a game of Ladder Golf. Writing The Unbreakable Anchor has given me a renewed appreciation for the people who quietly shaped our lives. Some relatives provided the chaos and the comedy, while others helped us navigate the consequences. Uncle Dean was often the man behind the camera, the calming voice in a heated discussion, or the person who arrived when help was needed. He taught me far more than a love of photography. He showed me that character is measured not by how loudly we make our presence known, but by the difference we make in the lives of others. Uncle Dean never asked for the spotlight, which is precisely why I think he deserves it now. Discover more of the people and family history behind The Unbreakable Anchor by subscribing to The Anchor, my monthly newsletter. -TJ Nilsdatter

Deep diving into history is one of the benefits of writing a historical novel. History is a passion of mine, and what I have discovered about the lives my great-grandparents led sometimes makes current-day struggles seem trivial. One of the most powerful forces shaping the world they lived in was the railroad. Nowhere was its impact more profound than across the northern plains, where the railroads transformed communities, economies, and everyday life, bringing extraordinary opportunities alongside consequences that were not always for the better. When my great-grandmother arrived in St. Paul, Minnesota, in 1902, she stepped into a world being transformed by the railroad. James J. Hill's Great Northern Railway already stretched from St. Paul across the northern plains and through the Cascade Mountains to Puget Sound, while the Northern Pacific followed its own transcontinental route farther south. But the great railroad expansion was far from over. New branches continued reaching into agricultural communities, towns competed desperately for rail connections, and rival companies fought for freight, passengers, and territory. Within a few years, the Milwaukee Road would begin pushing its own line west toward the Pacific, and more than a decade after my great-grandmother arrived, farmers around Veblen, South Dakota, would still be investing their own money to bring a railroad to their community. James J. Hill, the "Empire Builder At the center of the northern expansion was James J. Hill, the Canadian-born railroad executive who became known as the "Empire Builder." Hill and his partners had taken control of the struggling St. Paul and Pacific Railroad in the late 1870s, reorganized and expanded it, and eventually created the Great Northern Railway in 1889. Unlike several other western transcontinental railroads, the Great Northern was built without federal land grants, making the development of profitable traffic along its route especially important. Hill needed more than tracks across the prairie. He needed people living beside them, producing goods his railroad could carry and buying goods his trains could bring west. The Great Northern actively promoted settlement along its route, advertising farmland to prospective homesteaders and immigrants in the United States and Europe. Families packed their belongings into inexpensive "colonist cars," often equipped with hard seats and simple cooking facilities, and rode west toward land being promoted as an opportunity for a new life. Farmers produced the wheat and livestock Hill's trains could carry east, while those same families needed lumber, machinery, manufactured goods, and household supplies carried west. The railroad wasn't simply serving communities that already existed. Even in the early twentieth century, the expanding network continued to influence where people settled, where towns grew, and which communities gained access to national markets. Where those tracks landed, the transformation could be astonishing. Minot, North Dakota, provides one of the clearest examples of what Hill's expanding railroad could do to a place almost overnight. In 1886, construction of Hill's railroad reached the area and stopped for the winter, bringing thousands of railroad workers into what had been open prairie. A settlement grew with such speed that Minot became known as the "Magic City." The raw new community quickly acquired the saloons and gambling establishments that so often followed large populations of transient laborers. The railroad didn't simply connect Minot to the rest of the country. It was the reason the city developed where and when it did. Farther east, Fargo and Moorhead developed on opposite banks of the Red River, where railroads, agriculture, immigration, and commerce converged. Their relationship became particularly interesting after North Dakota outlawed alcohol while Moorhead remained wet. By 1900, Moorhead had forty-seven saloons serving a population of only 3,732. Some establishments clustered near the bridges specifically to attract customers from Fargo, and saloons even operated horse-drawn "jag wagons" that carried Fargo residents across the river to drink. The Red River had become more than a state boundary. It separated dry North Dakota from a booming liquor trade on the Minnesota side, demonstrating another way borders, railroad traffic, and rapidly growing towns combined to create economies that would have been almost unimaginable only a generation earlier. The bustling platform of Fargo's Northern Pacific Railway Station during the height of the early 20th-century railroad expansion. The Northern Pacific created its own string of important communities farther south. Bismarck became a critical Missouri River crossing and transportation center after the railroad reached the area in the 1870s. Farther west, the Northern Pacific reached Miles City, Montana, in 1881, linking an already rough frontier settlement near Fort Keogh to eastern markets. Miles City's saloons, dance halls, and bordellos served a transient population that included soldiers, buffalo hunters, bullwhackers, muleskinners, and cowboys. With the railroad came another transformation: cattle. Herds were driven to Miles City from great distances because the Northern Pacific could carry livestock directly to eastern markets, helping turn the town into an important cattle-shipping center. Fans of Larry McMurtry's Lonesome Dove may recognize Miles City and its place in the cattle-driving history of the American West. Then there was Lemmon, South Dakota, which belonged to yet another railroad empire. The Milwaukee Road pushed westward across South Dakota in the early twentieth century, and Lemmon was established along its route in 1907. The story of the town's location almost sounds invented, but it isn't. Ed Lemmon initially considered a townsite several miles east of the eventual location, but that would have placed it in North Dakota, which was dry. Lemmon himself later acknowledged that if the settlement was going to become a true boomtown, saloons would be part of it, and the town was instead established astride the North Dakota-South Dakota border. Lemmon later described the young community as "wide open" and "wild and wooly," remembering that fights were frequent. It was another example of how quickly the arrival of a railroad could transform open prairie into a bustling and sometimes unruly town. For women raising families in these rapidly changing communities, the railroad boom brought its own complications. Saloons, gambling, prostitution, and alcohol-related crime became part of life in many western railroad towns. Moorhead police records, for example, show that nearly three-quarters of arrests in the early 1900s were alcohol related, with arrests rising during harvest season as thousands of transient farm laborers arrived and spent their wages. Women also lived on the other side of that economy. Red-light districts and prostitution followed soldiers, cattlemen, railroad workers, and other transient male populations into many frontier communities. Their existence is easy to reduce to colorful stories about the "Wild West," but behind those stories were real women, often living with very few economic or social protections. North Bridge saloons on First Street in Moorhead, Minnesota, ca. 1890s. Image courtesy of the Flaten/Wange Collection, Historical and Cultural Society of Clay County Not every community experienced the railroad as a sudden boom, and Veblen, South Dakota, tells a very different story. The great transcontinental lines passed it by, leaving farmers in the surrounding countryside without the direct rail access enjoyed by communities such as Minot, Bismarck, or Miles City. Those farmers still needed access to the larger rail network to move crops and livestock and receive supplies, and eventually local residents helped make that connection themselves. In 1913, the Fairmount and Veblen Railway was constructed south from Fairmount, North Dakota, through communities including Rosholt and Claire City toward Veblen. Farmers living within roughly eight to ten miles of the proposed route were asked to contribute $200 for every quarter-section they owned or farmed, in the form of loans secured by mortgages in the new railroad. It is a remarkable indication of how valuable rail access had become that farmers were willing to put their own land and money behind building one. The first trains began running over the new railroad in November 1913, but the independent line did not remain independent for long. In 1915, the Fairmount and Veblen Railway was acquired by the much larger Soo Line. Simply getting a railroad, however, did not end the economic struggle for prairie farmers. Across the agricultural Midwest, farmers had been fighting railroad rates and the grain-buying system for decades. Line elevators controlled much of the local grain trade, and farmers complained about prices, weights, grading, and dockage. Government investigations uncovered collusion among some grain buyers and practices intended to drive independent and farmer-owned elevators out of business. Railroads also influenced where elevators could operate and how grain reached the major terminal markets. For a farmer who had spent months planting, tending, and harvesting a wheat crop, the final value of that crop could be determined by someone standing at an elevator scale, which helps explain why farmers eventually organized cooperatives and became such a powerful political force across the northern plains. The economic risks were only one side of the railroad age. The physical danger was staggering. In 1907 alone, 11,839 people were killed in accidents on American railroads and another 111,016 were injured. Among the dead were 4,534 railroad employees. Brakemen, switchmen, and other railroad employees worked around enormous moving equipment, often in darkness, snow, rain, and ice. Before modern automatic equipment and safety regulations, coupling cars, switching trains, working atop moving freight cars, and navigating crowded rail yards could be deadly. For thousands of families, the railroad that promised opportunity could also take away a husband, father, brother, or son. While all of this was changing life across the plains, both great transcontinental rivals continued pushing toward the Pacific. The Northern Pacific reached the Pacific Northwest first, completing its transcontinental route in 1883 and eventually crossing the Cascade Mountains through Stampede Pass. The Great Northern followed farther north. Hill's railroad pushed across North Dakota, Montana, and Idaho toward Washington, but one enormous obstacle still stood between the Great Northern and Puget Sound: the Cascade Mountains. Finding a way across them fell in large part to engineer John F. Stevens. In 1890, while surveying a route through the Cascades for Hill, Stevens identified the pass that would eventually bear his name. The first route over Stevens Pass was completed in 1893 using an extraordinary system of eight switchbacks. Trains climbed the mountain by repeatedly changing direction, moving forward and backward along steep sections of track. The switchback route stretched for roughly thirteen miles to gain only about three miles of direct distance, while heavy Cascade snow made the crossing difficult and dangerous. The Great Northern responded by going through the mountain. Construction of the first Cascade Tunnel began in 1897, and the approximately 2.6-mile tunnel opened in 1900, eliminating the original switchbacks. Even that did not solve all of the problems posed by the high mountain route. Avalanches remained a deadly threat, demonstrated most horribly by the Wellington disaster of 1910, when an avalanche swept two Great Northern trains from the mountainside and killed ninety-six people in one of the deadliest avalanche disasters in American history. The tragedy underscored just how formidable the Cascades remained even after engineers had supposedly conquered them. We'll return to the Wellington disaster in Book Two of the Before the Anchor series, where we'll explore more of this history. The catastrophic wreckage of Great Northern Railway trains buried in the Tye River Valley near Wellington, Washington, following the March 1, 1910 avalanche. Photo by E.J. Frazier, Thompson, Montana Eventually, the Great Northern went through the mountains again. In 1925, construction began on an entirely new Cascade Tunnel at a much lower elevation. Thousands of workers attacked the mountain from multiple directions using compressed-air drills, dynamite, heavy machinery, and a pioneering construction shaft that allowed crews to work from the center outward as well as from both ends. The resulting tunnel stretched 7.8 miles beneath the Cascades. When it opened in January 1929, it was the longest railroad tunnel in the Western Hemisphere. By then, the railroads had accomplished something that would have seemed extraordinary only a few generations earlier. Steel rails connected St. Paul and the farms and small towns of Minnesota and the Dakotas to Montana, the Cascade Mountains, and the ports of Puget Sound. Grain, cattle, lumber, manufactured goods, immigrants, tourists, mail, and generations of ordinary people traveled over routes that had not existed when many of the first homesteaders arrived. And here is where all of this history becomes strangely personal. Those railroads dictated where communities grew, determined where farmers could sell their crops, influenced where immigrants settled, and shaped which towns prospered and which struggled. They affected the daily lives of my ancestors on the northern plains more than a century ago, and eventually those tracks kept going west, across North Dakota, across Montana, through the Cascades, and into the Pacific Northwest. Tracking the iron trails: This circa 1910 map illustrates the competitive rail networks across the Northern Plains and Pacific Northwest that radically reshaped American settlement and commerce. Today, I live along that same northern rail corridor. The railroad that once shaped the world of my great-grandparents now runs through mine. The locomotives have changed, the towns have changed, and the homesteaders, railroad workers, and families who watched those tracks spread across the prairie are long gone, but the rails are still here. Sometimes, while researching The Sunstone Path, I find myself following a piece of my family's history only to discover that it has somehow led me right back home. -TJ Nilsdatter Want more of the history behind the stories? Join The Anchor, my monthly newsletter, for behind-the-scenes looks at The Sunstone Path and The Unbreakable Anchor, historical discoveries, family stories, book news, and subscriber extras delivered straight to your inbox.

Fall has always held the undisputed crown as my absolute favorite season. There is something deeply grounding about the shift in our Pacific Northwest air. Come September, almost like clockwork, the daylight recedes a little earlier each evening, cooling down the final, stubborn gasp of summer heat. With that cool air comes the welcome arrival of oversized sweaters, worn-in boots, and the low, silver mist that curls through the trees every morning. It brings the steady simmer of family favorites on the stove: rich potato soup, bubbling white chicken chili, and hearty beef stew. The prelude to the season always began in August with the start of school. My own childhood memories are filled with the thrill of expeditions for fresh clothes and the annual, high-stakes quest for the perfect lunchbox with its matching thermos. My absolute favorite was my vintage Strawberry Shortcake set. When the first day arrived, I made that legendary trek up the hill, both ways, as I still love to remind my boys. Times were certainly different then. Years later, when my own sons entered school, late August meant "Meet the Teacher" nights, assembling carefully curated pencil boxes, and labeling every notebook. I genuinely looked forward to walking them up to the building through the early morning fog, followed by the afternoon wait in the pick-up line. That sidewalk gathering became my lifeline: a squad of fellow mothers navigating the beautiful chaos of raising growing kids together. As the boys grew older, autumn took on a brand-new rhythm. When Liam started playing football, those crisp fall days led straight into Friday night lights, cold metal bleachers, and a heart caught in my throat with every single kickoff. Midfield before the whistle: Friday night lights, full bleachers, and a very proud football mom. Football, after all, was practically in their blood. The Seattle Seahawks became a cornerstone in our family back in 1976, when they first joined the NFL and captured my dad's heart. Sunday after Sunday, our single living room television belonged entirely to the game. Bit by bit, we learned the rules, mostly because the only other option was to find something else to do in another room. We learned early on that winning never came easily, and that when it did look promising, John Elway usually showed up to snuff out our dreams. The dedication and decades of loyal support finally paid off in 2014 when the Seahawks brought home their first Lombardi Trophy. Even with all that history, our household was never completely unanimous on the gridiron. My oldest son, Caleb, genuinely dislikes the game. He never understood the appeal, wondered why twenty-two grown men chasing a ball caused such an uproar, and concluded that the rest of us were completely obsessed. Lucy, our pug, shared his exact sentiments. For years, she would pace frantically back and forth between Alex and me, trying her best to referee whatever invisible crisis was making us shout at the screen. The 12th Pug: ready for game day in her custom Seahawks tutu. Now, standing on the other side of those busy school years, I find myself in a very different season: an emerging empty nest. My mom squad is still the anchor that helps me hold onto those sweet, fleeting chapters of my boys' childhoods, years that vanished far too quickly. I still wrestle with the quiet, that distinct ache of no longer being needed in the daily, hands-on way I was for decades. The flurry of school calendars, sports practices, and carpools left an undeniable hollow in my routine. Every autumn, those memories return with breathtaking clarity, but so does the steady promise of what comes next. Traditions do not end; they simply reshape themselves. Just last week, my brand-new granddaughter made her game-day debut, dressed to the nines in a custom-made Seahawks dress. Just yesterday, Dylan and I sat down to watch the game together, sharing a hot dish of his absolute favorite, tater tot casserole. Beside us on the rug, one little pug sat perfectly content, entirely indifferent to first downs or field goals, but thrilled that everyone was gathered under one roof. Dylan’s game day request: golden, bubbly tater tot casserole, the ultimate comfort food for a fall Sunday Football is just one piece of why this time of year owns my heart. Autumn opens the door to everything that draws us close: weekend games, holiday tables, and warm bowls of comfort food when the weather turns crisp. It sets a peaceful tone for the close of the year, framed by harvest moons, pumpkin patches, and a hot cup of coffee sipped beneath foggy skies, perhaps with a dash of pumpkin spice. The traditions may shift, and the people around the table may change. Children grow up, new generations arrive, and somehow the everyday seasons we thought would last forever become the stories we tell. But perhaps that is the real magic of fall. It reminds us to gather while we can, hold onto the memories we have built, and make plenty of room for the ones still to come. Those changing seasons of family life, and the memories we carry from one chapter into the next, are woven deeply throughout my upcoming memoir, The Unbreakable Anchor. -TJ Nilsdatter Carry the stories forward. Every season leaves us with stories worth keeping. Subscribe to The Anchor Newsletter for behind-the-scenes family memories, seasonal comfort recipes, book release updates, and a look at the stories still being written.

Fall has always been my favorite time of year. I love the crisp bite in the morning air, the heavy sweaters pulled from the back of the closet, and the quiet permission autumn gives you to slow down. But before fall officially takes over, we’ve always had a rule around here: you have to end summer with a bang. In our world, that grand finale almost always involves a massive group camping trip, a ridiculous amount of smoked ribs, and a certain kind of “mojitos make fun happen” energy. Now, if you want the actual story of what happened the night the mojitos took over the campground… well, you’ll have to wait to read that chapter in the book. Let’s just say some family legends are earned in real time, usually under tall pines with someone trying to keep a straight face, and they deserve every single page they take up in The Unbreakable Anchor. There is something about ribs on the grill that makes me actually forgive summer for its heat. Maybe it’s the rich ribbon of woodsmoke drifting through the campground before dinner. Maybe it’s the barbecue sauce that inevitably ends up on knuckles, cheeks, and picnic table benches. Or maybe it’s just the fact that ribs have never been a quiet, ordinary Tuesday night meal for us. They don’t show up for convenience. Ribs show up when people gather. And in our family, food isn't just fuel, it is the living heartbeat of every single gathering, especially when we’re out in the woods. Alex’s well-traveled Weber smoker. Years ago, for his birthday, I bought my husband Alex a smoker. It wasn’t a sleek little patio gadget; it was a massive, heavy Weber charcoal smoker that had to be practically disassembled into individual metal components just to wedge it into the back of the truck alongside the tents and coolers. That heavy metal drum has been an unwitting character in half our family lore. Over the years it has been hauled across the pass to state parks and riverbanks, but the best excuse Alex ever found to lug it anywhere was when he had an audience to mentor in the ancient, patient art of smoking meat. Our annual late-summer run to Eastern Washington, out toward a spot called Blu Shastin, was the proving ground. Whenever there wasn’t a burn ban in effect, Alex would fire up the coals and set to work turning boys into pitmasters. They’d gather around that drum like it was a sacred hearth, mesmerized by the smoke rings, the vents, and the slow transformation of meat over hours of quiet patience. Originally, it was just our boy and a couple of buddies hanging around with paper plates in hand. But year by year, that trip kept snowballing until Alex was suddenly presiding over an entire varsity football team, teaching teenagers how to time the wrap and watch the heat. Teenage boys carry an appetite that defies all laws of physics. If you put them through two-a-days and conditioning in the summer heat, you’d better be prepared to feed them like lumberjacks when they walk through camp. Ribs were built for that kind of crowd. They aren’t an elegant meal. Nobody eats ribs gracefully, and that’s precisely why they work. There are mountains of paper towels that immediately turn translucent from grease, sticky fingers, and people eyeing the platter for “just one more bone” five minutes after groaning that they couldn't eat another bite. The best part was watching the high school girls who somehow always managed to gravitate toward the campsite where the football players were gathered. They’d arrive attempting to look cool, poised, and detached—right up until the platter hit the table. Within twenty minutes, all pretenses had vanished, and every one of those girls was sitting on a camp chair with barbecue sauce smeared across their grins just like the rest of the crew. The sure sign the ribs were a hit Maybe that’s what makes ribs the ultimate gathering food: you can’t protect your dignity while eating them, so you might as well relax and enjoy the crowd. When I look back at my favorite memories, very few of them belong to grandiose milestones or perfectly staged events. They happened around scarred wooden picnic tables, leaning against the tailgates of trucks, sitting shoulder-to-shoulder on camp cots, or crammed into a kitchen where everyone is elbowing each other for counter space. The meal itself rarely felt historical in the moment. You were just hungry, and the food was good. Years later, though, that meal is the anchor that pulls the whole day back to the surface. You remember the exact smell of pine needles heating up in the midday sun. You remember who was sitting across from you. You remember Alex squinting through the woodsmoke with a set of tongs in his hand. You remember laughing until your ribs hurt over an inside joke that probably wouldn't make sense to a single soul outside that circle of camp chairs. Food has an uncanny way of becoming part of the permanent record of our lives. That’s why food and recipes belong right alongside the stories I tell. Family history isn’t locked away strictly in official courthouse ledgers, black-and-white portraits, or branches inked across a pedigree chart. It lives in the dog-eared index cards tucked inside an old metal recipe box. It lives in the dish everyone demands at the holidays, or the breakfast someone’s dad made on the camp stove every July without fail. Sometimes, family history is just an absurd amount of meat on a charcoal smoker. September has always felt like a doorway between two worlds. The summer sun hasn’t fully packed its bags yet. The afternoons are still golden and warm, perfect for keeping the grill going while the sun dips behind the trees. But the mornings have that familiar sharpness. The dusk comes an hour earlier. High school stadium lights are humming on Friday nights. In just a couple of weeks, the heavy Dutch ovens and slow cookers will take over the counter, the house will fill with the smell of simmered beef and chili, and everything we make will lean into autumn. Before we officially trade the smoke for the stew pot, this feels like the right moment to pass along one last taste of summer. These baby back ribs have carried us through long camping weekends, football seasons, and countless rowdy tables full of kids who grew up way faster than we were ready for. Alex’s smoked baby back ribs And I’m finally writing down the way Alex makes them. Pinning Alex down for exact measurements was a small exercise in comedy. Like most people who have spent years cooking over open coals, his primary measuring tool is his own two eyes. “How much mustard, Alex?” “Enough to coat it, TJ.” “Okay, but how much rub?” “Until it looks right.” Invaluable advice if you’ve tended a hundred racks of ribs; mildly exasperating when your wife is sitting with a notebook trying to translate instinct into a recipe people can actually replicate at home. Don't fret over exact fractional teaspoons here. The technique, the classic 3-2-1 slow roll, is what matters. Alex’s Smoked Baby Back Ribs The Ingredients 2 racks baby back ribs (membrane removed from the back) Approx. ¼ cup yellow mustard (just enough for a thin binder) ¼ to ⅓ cup of your favorite barbecue rub (generously applied) 1 to 1½ cups of your favorite barbecue sauce, plus extra for basting The Method Preheat the Smoker: Bring your smoker up to a steady 275°F to 300°F with your choice of wood (apple or hickory works wonders here). Apply the Binder: Brush a thin, even coat of plain yellow mustard over both sides of the racks. You won’t taste mustard when it's done—it simply gives the spices something tacky to grab so they don't slide off. Season Generously: Dust the ribs all over with your dry rub until they have an even, textured crust. Let them sit for 10–15 minutes until the rub looks wet. The First Smoke (3 Hours): Place the ribs directly on the smoker grate, meat side up. Close the lid and let the smoke do the work for 3 hours undisturbed. The Wrap (2 Hours): Pull the ribs off and wrap each rack tightly in a double layer of heavy-duty foil (crimp the edges tight to trap the steam). Return the wrapped bundles to the smoker for another 2 hours. This is where they turn fork-tender. The Glaze & Finish (1 Hour): Carefully peel back and discard the foil. Brush a thick, glossy coat of barbecue sauce over the top of the ribs. Lay them back on the grates, uncovered, for the final hour so the sauce can caramelize into a sticky lacquer. Brush on a second coat about 20 minutes before pulling them off if you like them extra saucy. Alex usually grabs whatever sauce we happen to have on hand, though on special occasions he’ll whip up a batch of his homemade raspberry chipotle sauce. That recipe, however, is staying locked in the family vault for now. For tonight, grab the ribs. And make sure you pull out twice as many napkins as you think you need. I hope that future generations can tell that people were fed here, not just nourished, but welcomed. That there was always room for another folding chair around the circle. That laughter was loud and summer nights were spent outdoors with the stars fighting the campfire for light. Those messy, everyday rituals are so easy to take for granted while your hands are still sticky with sauce and you’re trying to pack up a truck before sunset. But when you step back, those are the exact moments that stitch a family’s story together. Preserving a family legacy can mean digging through archives and piecing together ship manifests from across an ocean. And sometimes, it’s as simple as making sure the rib recipe doesn't get lost. Want to stay connected beyond the blog? Sign up for my monthly newsletter, The Anchor, where I share life updates, what I’m working on, book news, and a new collectible bookmark each month. Pull up a chair and join me at the table. -TJ Nilsdatter

Almost a year ago, I sat down at my keyboard. Never once in that moment did I sit down with the intention of writing a book. I was just writing to write. My husband was in the middle of an exhausting job hunt. When we were supposed to be navigating becoming empty nesters and starting to prepare for retirement in our mid-50s, we instead had to navigate our rapidly draining retirement and life savings after what was, at the time I started writing, a year and a half of unemployment. Getting lost in the blank page was an escape into my memories when the stress of our situation simply became too much to carry. Typing gave me a private refuge when everything else felt out of control and, what now seems a bit dark, a way to get our family history down before I was no longer here to tell it. What I didn't anticipate was the sheer avalanche waiting behind that first sentence. Once the floodgates opened, more than thirty years of life came rushing onto the page. There was our time in the Navy, living as a young wife three thousand miles away from home, utterly alone in a strange town for months on end while my husband was deployed. It was a lonely, grueling chapter, but I fought my way through it. Then came civilian life, cross-country moves, career pivots, and our three boys. At one point, I had three toddlers under the age of five, two of them with special needs, navigating endless therapies and medical hurdles in a city far away from any family support system. When the stress of those years threatened to pull me under, I survived by looking backward. I drew strength from the people who have kept me grounded my entire life: the parents, grandparents, and generations before me who weathered their own storms. Along with the heavy chapters came the camping trips, the dogs, the inside jokes, and just enough absurdity to keep the whole thing from sinking into pure despair. Four generations of my family. I’m the baby. Before I knew what was happening, what started as personal therapy had grown into a sprawling family saga. Somewhere along the way, I had to face the reality that what I had created was, by definition, a memoir. Even if that narrow label felt far too tidy for the chaotic reality of our lives. But then I asked myself just why anyone would want to read about my story, a question you even see on YouTube channels: “Don’t write a memoir. Nobody cares.” The self-doubt took over. I had always assumed memoirs belonged to a very specific crowd. For starters, I thought they were written by famous people. Presidents wrote memoirs. Movie stars and rock musicians wrote memoirs. People whose names sold the book before anyone even knew what was inside wrote memoirs. If the author wasn't a celebrity, then surely they had survived a historic expedition, escaped a cult, or built a Fortune 500 company selling Ta-Ta Towels on Shark Tank. Let's be real, though. I should say “ghostwriters” wrote memoirs. I am none of those things. I have no grand claim to fame (well, maybe in my own mind I do). I am simply a wife, a mother, a daughter, and a woman fiercely loyal to her family and to the memory of the people who shaped her. I’m not a lawyer, nor do I have connections in the publishing industry. I’m just a simple person putting words down on paper. But I kept writing anyway and eventually sent the manuscript to beta readers to see if any of these words resonated beyond my own living room. When the feedback started rolling in, one specific comparison appeared again and again: The Glass Castle by Jeannette Walls. The book that changed how I saw my own memoir. I had never heard of the book. Intrigued, I ordered a copy. From the opening pages, I could not put it down. I laughed, I cried, and I found myself intensely, furiously angry with people I had never met in my life. I had zero personal connection to the Walls family, yet I was turning pages late into the night, desperately rooting for those kids to make it. I understood some of their parents' choices, condemned others, and repeatedly fought the urge to reach straight through the paper to shake someone by the shoulders. That was when the obvious finally clicked. I didn't pick up that book because I cared about Jeannette Walls beforehand; she was a total stranger. I cared because she told her family's story with enough radical, unvarnished honesty to make me care. That is why we read other people's lives. We don't need to have lived the exact same path to recognize the grit, the grief, and the fierce, imperfect love in the margins. You don't tell a story because the world already knows who you are. You tell it honestly enough that, for a few hundred pages, they do. Which brings me to an unfortunate development: I have apparently declared Jeannette Walls my direct rival. For an unpublished author gearing up to launch her debut, pitting myself against a beloved international bestseller feels like an exceptionally sound business strategy. I would need to convince 12,500 people to buy my book at $8,000 apiece, or find one eccentric billionaire, to even come close to her numbers. According to Gemini's math, anyway. I will happily link to The Glass Castle because it really is a fantastic read. However, if you click that link and buy a copy, I feel obligated to point out that you are under a binding social contract to buy approximately twenty copies of The Unbreakable Anchor when it lands on Amazon this November. I need to keep the playing field somewhat level. :) Putting a true story out into the world means accepting that you cannot know how it will be received until you let it go. But after living the madness, surviving the seasons that forged it, and finding my own anchor along the way, I am ready. Fair is fair, and November will be here before we know it. We all have stories to tell and stories worth leaving for the next generation. Write them down. Save the ridiculous stories along with the important ones. Write down the names nobody will remember how to spell, the family jokes that make absolutely no sense outside your kitchen, and the stories everyone swears they'll never forget. Because someday, somebody will. And if you'd like to follow along while I attempt to turn thirty-plus years of family chaos into an actual published book, come aboard. Subscribe to The Anchor newsletter and follow me on social media. I can't promise this will all go according to plan, but at this point, where would be the fun in that? -TJ Nilsdatter

There is something deceptively simple about a single line on a family tree. Born in Norway. Died in America. You see two places, two dates, and perhaps the name of a ship or a faint port stamp if the church and immigration records held up. What that ink cannot capture is everything that happened in the space between those two points. It cannot show the physical weight of a domed, iron-strapped kiste painted with traditional rosemåling and packed with dried flatbrød, sheepskins, a worn family hymnbook, and iron tools. It cannot convey what it felt like to lock the door on a hillside farm where your ancestors walked the same stone paths for three hundred years, knowing you were walking down to the fjord to leave it all behind. And it certainly cannot tell you whether the people standing on the wooden pier, watching the ship slip into the morning mist, understood they were looking at their children for the very last time. Image source: Rosemaled Chest from Åseral (1709), via PICRYL Between 1825 and the early decades of the twentieth century, more than 800,000 Norwegians made that exact choice. Relative to its population, only Ireland saw a larger portion of its people cross the Atlantic. My own family’s foundation rests upon that mass departure. All four Norwegian branches of my family eventually crossed the ocean. They started new lives that would slowly weave together generations later. They did not leave at the same time, under the same circumstances, or for the same reasons. Their personal journeys will be told one book at a time, but the broader history beneath their choices reveals just how much was truly at stake, and the staggering risks ordinary people took for the mere chance of something different. In nineteenth-century Norway, survival was carved out of rock, fjord, and steep valley walls. Improved health and a drop in infant mortality caused the country’s population to boom, but the land itself could not expand with it. Under the long-standing tradition of odelsrett, ancestral farm property passed directly to the eldest son to keep holdings intact. For younger siblings with no land to inherit, the valley walls offered almost nowhere left to grow. Many were pushed into becoming tenant cottars who worked small, rocky plots leased from large landowners. They paid for their shelter with heavy physical labor, lived at the whim of the landlord, and possessed virtually no path toward ever owning the ground beneath their boots. My grandfather’s family farm in Norway, nestled beneath the steep mountainsides that shaped generations of life here. Combined with periodic crop failures, brutal winters, and a rigid social hierarchy governed by the state church and local officials, the pressure in the valleys became immense. America offered more than higher wages; it aggressively recruited them. American states and railroad companies sent agents straight into Scandinavian ports and valleys, circulating brochures in Norwegian that praised the near-mythic promise of the Homestead Act of 1862: 160 acres of free, tillable land that could belong entirely to the person working it. For some, leaving was a matter of sheer economic survival. For others, it was pure ambition. Some sought timber, some sought dirt, some sought fishing waters that mirrored the North Sea, and some simply wanted to shed the immovable class boundaries of their home valleys. There was no single Norwegian immigrant story. There is a fitting symmetry in the fact that this journey west followed a very old wake. Nearly nine centuries before the nineteenth-century passenger ships set sail, Norse sailors had already navigated the North Atlantic, establishing a settlement at L’Anse aux Meadows in Newfoundland around the year 1000, a historical fact that leads many Norwegians today to politely yet firmly dispute the notion that Columbus discovered America. By the late 1800s, longships and exploratory sagas had been replaced by crowded steamships and immigrant trunks. Yet the idea of the western horizon had long lived in the Norwegian cultural memory. What made nineteenth-century America feel real and attainable was not ancient history. It was the steady trickle of paper coming back across the sea. One person’s decision could rewrite the trajectory of an entire bloodline. Letters from the new world traveled back across the Atlantic and were treated like treasures. They were passed from hand to hand across valleys, read aloud by firelight, and debated in parish churches until the paper grew soft and frayed. These letters carried astonishing news: stories of white wheat bread eaten daily, meat on the table multiple times a week, cash wages paid promptly for hard labor, and a society where a common worker did not have to bow his head to the local elite. Most importantly, a letter proved that someone from the home village had survived the Atlantic and found solid footing on the other side. Chain migration quickly took hold. A brother went first, sending back a prepaid ticket for his younger sister. A cousin followed to work the harvest, and a neighbor heard there was timber work or maritime trade in coastal towns that smelled of cedar and salt. Gradually, entire Norwegian settlements took root thousands of miles away, easing the terrifying shock of the unknown. Yet having a cousin waiting on a platform in the Midwest or the Pacific Northwest did not lessen the agony of leaving the old world behind. Original family photographs sent from Norway to my family in America. Today, geographical distance is an inconvenience managed by a plane ticket or a phone call. In the nineteenth century, distance was often final. Communication moved at the speed of steam, rail, and canvas. A letter announcing the birth of a grandchild might arrive after the infant was already walking, and news of a mother’s grave illness often arrived weeks after the dirt had settled over her coffin. The crossing itself was an arduous dividing line. Whether enduring weeks in the dark, swaying bellies of early wooden sailing ships, or days packed into the steerage of ocean- going steamships like the famed RMS Carpathia, immigrants battled relentless seasickness, disease, stale water, and the crushing anxiety of being suspended between two worlds. When an emigrant hugged their parents goodbye on the dock in Bergen, Christiania, or Trondheim, both sides understood the brutal reality that they would likely never see each other's faces again. Statistics can record the exact tonnage of the vessels and count every name entered into the shipping ledgers, but they cannot measure the silence left behind in the valley homes or the weight of those final embraces. Stepping off a gangplank onto American docks was not an immediate guarantee of security. New arrivals faced medical examinations, legal scrutiny, and the threat of being turned back under evolving immigration laws. Those who cleared inspection stepped into a bewildering, fast-moving landscape where many spoke no English. They had to navigate unfamiliar currency, foreign laws, complicated train transfers across an enormous continent, and the urgent necessity of finding work and shelter before their remaining savings vanished. Norwegian-language newspapers, immigrant-built Lutheran churches, and established kin networks served as vital lifelines. Immigrants leaned on one another to translate legal deeds, learn new farming techniques, find logging camps, and get through bitter first winters. Furthermore, stepping onto American soil did not grant legal standing as a citizen. Naturalization required years of residency, formal legal petitions, witnesses, and court appearances. Opportunity existed, but every inch of security had to be built with raw labor. Newly arrived European immigrants landing at Ellis Island, New York, 1902. Looking backward across four or five generations creates a comforting illusion of inevitability. It is easy to think that of course they left, of course they survived, and of course their children found each other so their descendants could become us. We know how the story turned out, but they did not. The young man carrying his trunk down to the harbor could not see the generations that would follow him. He did not know if the farm he broke ground on would survive the first freeze, or if the glowing promises written in the letters sent back home had been exaggerated. The young woman staring out over the ship’s rail did not know if she would spend the rest of her days aching for the sound of mountain streams and her mother’s voice. Even within the same household, one sibling chose to leave while another chose to stay and bear the burden of the family farm. Two people in the same valley, facing the exact same poverty, made diametrically opposed choices. Every one of my four Norwegian family lines eventually reached American soil, but their reasons, timelines, and sacrifices belong to separate, distinct stories. While weathered headstones in quiet churchyards mark where their long journeys ended, their true legacy isn’t carved in stone; it lives in the generations of descendants they created, rooted in the very soil they gambled everything to reach. Historic brick country church with weathered tombstones in an old, grassy churchyard cemetery. That unresolved tension between choice and circumstance sits quietly beneath my series, Before the Anchor: The Forging of a Family. Beginning with The Sunstone Path, the series follows these separate threads through the realities of immigration, industry, hardship, love, and loss. While the books may be classified as historical fiction, they are true stories. They belong to my great-grandparents, meticulously researched through archives, family records, and historical documents, then reconstructed to the absolute best of my ability. Where the historical record goes quiet, I worked like a detective to bridge the silences, but these people and their journeys are not fabricated. Real people packed those trunks. Real families split apart across the ocean. Some found the prosperity they sought, while others discovered challenges they never could have anticipated while standing on Norwegian soil. And some remained behind in the valleys. I am deliberately not going to tell you which reasons belong to which people just yet, as that belongs to their individual stories. For now, it is enough to know that eventually four separate paths led from Norway to America. Generations later, those lines converged to create one family. Before there could ever be an unbreakable anchor, it first had to be forged. -TJ Nilsdatter Subscribe to The Anchor to get monthly updates, upcoming book announcements, and your free monthly collectible bookmark.

There is a particular kind of man the prairie produces, or perhaps more accurately, selects for. Not the loudest man in the room. Not the one with the most to say. The one who, when the land turns against you and the wind is howling and the rope between your door and your well is the only thing keeping you alive, simply tightens his grip and goes back inside to add another log to the stove. That man is my great-grandfather, Albert Buran. The man I never got to meet, but whose influence can still be seen through the generations. He was a man who made difficult choices. A selfless man who quietly took on burdens that were never meant to be his to carry. A man whose quiet strength built a legacy. A man who stayed. A fictionalized portrait of Albert, inspired by family photographs and historical research. Albert was born in 1882 in the steep, narrow valleys of Markabygd, Norway, where the ridges caught the sound and held it close, where farms were worked in thin strips of soil between rock and sky, and where a young man with any hunger for space could see, plainly and early, that there was not enough room for him. He left in the spring of 1903, crossed the Atlantic aboard the iron-hulled SS Celtic, rode the rails through the industrial chaos of Chicago, and stepped off a train in Minot, North Dakota, into a landscape that was the complete opposite of everything he had ever known. No ridges. No forest. No sound caught and held by anything. Just wind, and grass, and a sky so big it produced a physical vertigo in a man raised between mountains. He looked west. He stayed. What followed was the kind of life that does not make for dramatic stories told at dinner tables, but makes for everything else. Albert broke sod with a steel plow that screamed against a thousand years of stubborn prairie root. He hauled every drop of drinking water in wooden barrels from the Souris River miles away, because the shimmering sloughs dotting his claim were alkali and bitter enough to kill a horse. He descended into a four-foot hole in the earth by hand, day after day, until clean water finally seeped over his boots. He built his own walls out of the land itself. He did all of this without complaint, and without much company, and without anyone to tell him it was remarkable. To Albert, it was simply what needed doing. The prairie gave nothing freely. Every acre had to be earned. He is not the man who stands up at the barn raising and gives a speech. He is the man who shows up before dawn with his tools already sharpened. His neighbors learn this about him gradually, the way you learn anything true about a person of few words: through repeated evidence. He does not volunteer loudly. He does not seek recognition. But when the work needs doing, Albert is simply there. He has always already thought of it. That quiet reliability is his defining characteristic, and quietly, his greatest burden. The prairie does not reward sentimentality, and Albert rarely indulges in it, but there is a tenderness in him that he guards carefully. It lives in the way he tends his animals, in the patient and unhurried mornings he spent earning the trust of a wild copper stallion others would have broken by force. It lives in his garden too, where he moved through the rows with the same steady attention he gave to everything in his care, talking to his plants in a low voice the way other men talked to their horses, with no expectation that the conversation needed to go both ways. He understood, in some quiet and practical way, that living things respond to being noticed. That attention itself is a form of nourishment. He earned the trust of animals the same way he earned everything else: quietly, and over time. Survival on the Dakota frontier meant every pioneer maintained a garden to endure the brutal winters. Potatoes. Cabbage. Rhubarb. The practical things that kept a family alive when the snow buried the prairie and the wind turned merciless. But Albert planted something else too. Alongside the root vegetables and the work of survival stood rows of towering sunflowers in what the family later called his “Horseman’s Garden.” They were not there simply for beauty, though they brought that too. Albert harvested the seeds and pressed the oil from them, using it to condition the coats of his prized draft horses until they gleamed in the prairie sun for potential buyers. Even in the hardest country on earth, Albert understood that care mattered. That strength alone was never enough. Things survived better when they were tended properly. Where another man might have found the isolation of the North Dakota plateau crushing, Albert found something close to relief. The silence on the prairie is different from the silence of the Norwegian valleys, where the ridges held sound close like a secret. Out here it simply stretches, thin and infinite, until it disappears into the horizon. It asks nothing of him. It does not require him to perform or explain. With his dogs at his feet and his horses nearby and his garden rows in front of him, Albert was entirely himself. With his dog at his feet and the prairie stretching beyond the horizon, Albert was entirely himself. This is what I mean when I say he was the foundation. Not a man who demanded to be seen, but a man whose presence made everyone around him steadier. The land cost him constantly, and he paid constantly, and he did not keep a tally. His path in The Sunstone Path is not an easy one. I will not say more than that. But I will say that by the time I finished writing him, I understood something about Albert, and about the men in my family, that I had not fully understood before. I hope, when you read his story, you come to love him too. — TJ Nilsdatter Albert's story is only the beginning. Subscribe for updates on The Sunstone Path and future stories from my family's past.

Every place featured in The Unbreakable Anchor carries a specific emotional weight and purpose. From the crystal, glacier-fed waters of Lake Wenatchee to the raw, ocean-pounded headlands of Cape Disappointment, where grief and clarity collide, each landscape holds a piece of our story. Then there are the moss-covered trees of Rasar State Park. Their towering presence reaches endlessly into the sky. In the grand scheme of our family travels, it is a newer park, but it quickly became an essential gathering place for all of us. Rasar sits just downriver from the town of Concrete, a place Supernatural fans will instantly recognize, but one that holds a fascinating, gritty history all its own. Long before it shared a unified name, the area was ground zero for two fierce industrial rivals. The Washington Portland Cement Company set up shop on one side of the river, building its own company town dubbed "Cement City." Just three years later, the Superior Portland Cement Company moved in directly across the water. The early town hall meetings must have been an absolute battlefield. Eventually, Cement City merged with the original townsite of Baker to officially become Concrete. Concrete’s historic cement silos, a reminder of the town’s industrial roots. Photo: Joe Mabel, CC BY-SA 3.0 From there, the town grew into an industrial powerhouse, supplying concrete for the monumental builds of the Great Northern Railroad and serving as a critical supplier during World War II. Today, Concrete stands as that true "last gasp" of civilization before you leave town limits behind and venture deep into the North Cascades Highway, one of the most breathtaking alpine drives in the entire country. We only discovered Rasar a few years ago, although in an odd twist, this wasn't the first time my family had found its way to this part of the Skagit Valley. My grandmother had her own story here decades before any of us began camping along the river. As a child, I visited my great-uncle's farm up here on a road that is now named for his family, but that belongs to another story that will be told in The Sunstone Path. Welcome to Rasar State Park, tucked into the forests of the Skagit River Valley. The land Rasar sits on was donated to the state of Washington by the Rasar family. It sits just an hour from our house, making it the easiest escape for a quick weekend getaway. Because of its expansive group campsite, it rapidly transformed into the go-to basecamp for our entire extended family. Having Birdsview Brewing Company five minutes away helped bring the crowd, too. The air here is always cool, damp, and richly seasoned with the scent of cedar. Anyone from Washington instantly recognizes that smell. Giant Douglas firs and bigleaf maples tower overhead, draped in thick curtains of emerald moss that muffle the noise of the modern world. It is a place built for gathering, from quiet trailer weekends with the dogs to milestone family celebrations beneath the massive timber picnic shelter. My boys learned to ride their bikes here, circling the campground loops on a mission to make Mom run after them. Following the trail beneath Rasar’s towering, moss-covered trees, where even a simple family walk became part of the memories. The park has numerous hiking trails scattered throughout, but the main Skagit River Trail winds beneath the deep canopy, the dirt trail offering intermittent glimpses of rushing water before reaching a white sand spit that contrasts against the turquoise water. From there, the forest trail continues along the bank of the river, eventually opening into sweeping fields of tall grass. It passes an old red barn and a fence line where llamas graze peacefully. As you loop your way back to the campground, the sun starts getting filtered out by the tall trees, creating a canopy of shade where you'll find blackberry bushes lining the way. These walks were a tradition for our family, often accompanied by dogs—sometimes a lot of them—and were always an invitation for the impromptu tossing of a football from uncles to nephews for the entire length of the path. When you finish the loop, you end up in the day-use area where the campground restrooms sit. Outside, massive river boulders are fitted with sturdy tie-down rings so four-legged campers can wait safely while their humans step inside. It is a practical quirk our senior pugs have made full use of over the years, affectionately known as the "Dog Parking Rocks." At the end of the day, after all the activity, it was home to a crackling fire, a warm drink in your hand, and the laughter of campfire stories. If you're lucky, you can even catch the northern lights dancing across the sky, turning shades of purple and turquoise and illuminating the entire campground. But nothing is better than fall, when nature puts on a stunning display of color. Fall at Rasar, when a family walk through the campground comes with dogs, bikes, and sunlight pouring through the trees. Rasar also became our anchor for endless day trips along Highway 20. Pushing farther east, the foothills give way, the canyon walls tighten, and the road leads into Newhalem, the historic Seattle City Light company town tucked right into the sheer rock floor. With its historic power generators, vintage locomotives, and manicured company lawns hemmed in by towering wilderness, Newhalem feels suspended in time. Carving Highway 20 through these unforgiving granite passes took decades of sheer human grit, and the communities along the line understood the value of holding steady through the wilderness. The North Cascades Highway is closed for the winter due to heavy snowpack. For years, the highway's spring reopening was marked by Tootsie Clark, the legendary "Cinnamon Roll Lady" of Marblemount, standing faithfully along the roadside to hand-deliver cinnamon rolls to the very first drivers crossing the pass. That neighborly warmth in the middle of a rugged alpine wilderness captures the exact spirit of this corridor. Sadly, she passed away in 2017, but her legacy lives on as her family has continued the tradition. The views as you make your way up the pass are unbelievable, but the showstopper of the drive is Diablo Lake. The electric-turquoise water of Diablo Lake slaps you in the face as you round the curves of the highway, contrasting against the surrounding stone cliffs and pine forests. Colored by fine glacial silt ground down by active ice fields high above, the water looks almost painted into the canyon stone. Standing at the overlook with the crisp mountain wind coming down off the ridges, the true scale of the Pacific Northwest wilderness settles in around you. Diablo Lake, where Highway 20 delivers one of its biggest showstoppers: brilliant turquoise water surrounded by the rugged North Cascades. The highway eventually summits Washington Pass and drops into the dry pine country of the Methow Valley, but for our story, the heart of this journey stays right here: in the quiet timber of Rasar, the small-town grit of the valley, and the high turquoise water that marks the true gateway to the mountains. In The Unbreakable Anchor, Rasar is home to so many of our shared memories, including the unforgettable afternoon when we almost ended up in the rushing current of the Skagit River. Almost. ...But that's a story for the book. Want to explore more settings and behind-the-scenes stories from the book? I go in depth on the places in the books here on the blog. 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What Meta Customer Service Taught Me About Everything We’re Losing Online A few weeks ago Meta suffered an outage. While my early-stage marketing is just getting started, my primary source of visibility is Facebook. At times it feels like I’m shouting into the void. The advice you get on the web on the “best way” to market is filled with the same formula. Build an audience before you publish, start a newsletter, join author groups, go comment on random pages in your genre and create a presence in the comments. On and on it goes. (Thankfully, the reach issue has since resolved itself. The password issue, however, is apparently immortal.) As an author who is also doing everything myself when it comes to building my business, when the views I've built up over a few months drop by 80%, I question everything, including whether anyone is going to care about my books. In an attempt to figure out whether or not I was having a technical issue with my account or if anyone actually cared what I had to say, I took an adventure down the road of dealing with Meta customer service, and let me tell you, it was an eye-opener. The first representative was polite enough, but their main suggestion was that I just run ads, as if the solution to my content disappearing was to pay them for it. When that didn't explain why my analytics were contradicting themselves, I got passed along to automated AI support. Even the AI Wants to Speak to a Manager Talking to an AI customer service agent is a lot like playing tennis against a wall. Every question comes back in a slightly different shape, wrapped in a scripted apology. At one point, while I was trying to sort out an unrelated password issue, the bot thoughtfully suggested I review Meta’s Advertising Policies. For a password. I sat there staring at my screen, genuinely trying to figure out how those two thoughts had ever been connected in someone's flowchart. Then it kept politely informing me that I could ask to be transferred to a human representative at any time. Great. So I typed, “transfer me to a human.” It turned right around and told me its programming didn't allow it to transfer me. And because apparently we hadn't wandered far enough from the original problem yet, it randomly sent me a link for cyberbullying. At that point, I genuinely wasn't sure who was being bullied, me by the algorithm or the algorithm by my persistence. It actually made me look back almost fondly on dealing with Vacasa. A while ago, I tried to add just one single day to an existing reservation. It took a full week of back-and-forth because their responses arrived every 48 hours, right to the minute, like clockwork. A five-minute conversation between two human beings turned into a seven-day waiting game dictated by a ticketing system. At least with Vacasa, a human eventually answered. With Meta, it was instant confusion delivered on an automated, contradictory loop. Meanwhile, Facebook kept sending me notifications insisting people were watching my reel, while the actual view count insisted otherwise, two versions of the same company arguing with each other, with no human anywhere in sight to settle it. It made me sit back and realize how quietly the days of true human connection have slipped away from us. We’ve built a world that prioritizes speed and automation over basic care, and we’ve traded real relationships for metrics. Everything is designed to process people rather than talk to them. You see it on the job hunt, where resumes are funneled into software scanners that reject human lives at two in the morning without a single pair of human eyes ever looking at them, something I’ve watched my husband and son navigate lately, and a story I’ll save for another day. You see it in customer support, where companies hide behind chatbots and ticketing delays to avoid having to actually listen. And you see it online, where we’re taught to view every person as a "lead," a "click," or a "conversion." When you're up late editing videos, tweaking a website, writing newsletters, and trying to build something real from the ground up, that loss hits hard. Underneath all the background hustle, what any of us are really trying to do is reach real human hearts through all that noise. Not for a sales funnel. Just for a genuine connection. I had a sweet, quiet reminder of what that used to look like today. I took Lucy to the vet for a follow-up appointment. While I was paying at the register, I casually mentioned to the receptionist how good it smelled inside because of a lit candle. She didn't consult a corporate manual, check a metric, or run my comment through a keyword scanner. She just smiled, said "hold on," reached under the counter, and handed me a candle to take home. A small kindness, given for no reason other than kindness. No sales pitch. No up-sell. Just one person being kind to another simply because she could. The digital age has taken away something quiet and essential: the simple, unscripted warmth of human connection. There is a real cost to being online at all times, constantly tethered to platforms that demand we perform for algorithms instead of relating to people. Plenty of marketing advice out there practically tells you to stand on your head and juggle with your feet just for clicks, to turn yourself into a spectacle for a split-second impression. I’d rather just be human. So my gentle invitation for this week is to step off the machine's treadmill for a minute. Let's choose depth over speed, stay humble, and remember that behind every screen, every document, and every post is an actual person just hoping to be seen. ...And look, I know I spent this whole post talking about how much I dislike pushy marketing tactics. I really do. But if I don't ask you to like, comment, share, ring the bell, send a carrier pigeon, and bookmark this post for your descendants, the Meta algorithm might actually send me another link for cyberbullying support. So if this resonated with you at all, feel free to give it a share, or at least leave a comment letting me know what your favorite candle scent is. No head-standing required. -TJ Nilsdatter Want to stay awhile? The Anchor is my monthly letter about writing, history, family, and everything in between.

I'll save everyone the trouble of the comment section. Yes, I know there's already a Thor. Yes, he has a hammer and a red cape and a very good publicist. This is not him. This is my Thor, several generations back on my own family line, and I promise you, the resemblance to the movie version is not entirely a coincidence, because the man was built on the same scale as a legend and nobody told him he wasn't allowed to act like one. Thor's great-grandfather, Paul Harildstad, was a freeholding farmer and military man from a respected local family in Gudbrandsdalen Valley. He sat down at Eidsvoll Manor in 1814 to help write Norway's constitution, the actual founding document of the country. The valley itself carries the name of a Viking-age chieftain who ruled it centuries earlier with something close to royal authority, so this family tree carries roots running deep into Norwegian history. None of that status or land made it down to Thor directly, though. His own mother was one of three sisters, and the inheritance did what inheritances so often do and slid sideways to a cousin instead. So the man who eventually crossed an ocean was, technically, a direct descendent of one of the men who helped found a nation, quite possibly descended from Viking lords, and he still ended up without the deed to the family land. I like to think he took it personally. In 1814, 112 representatives gathered at Eidsvoll Manor to write Norway's constitution, a defining moment in the nation's history. Among them was my ancestor, Paul Harildstad, whose legacy would eventually inspire one of the families at the heart of The Sunstone Path. What Paul did leave behind was a physical piece of that history, a maple tree he planted on the family farm in Gudbrandsdalen, grown from a sapling he brought back from the historic Eidsvoll grounds in 1814. When it came time for Thor to leave, he carried a living sapling cut from that very tree, wrapped carefully enough to survive the voyage across the Atlantic. In a pivotal scene from The Sunstone Path, Thor faces the hard choice to leave the safety and comfort of his brother's home in St. Paul to forge a life of his own. Resting on the mantel was the sunstone he had brought with him from Norway, a piece of Iceland spar that Vikings once used to navigate uncharted waters. Looking to the stone as their compass forward, he turns to his wife: “God is steering the ship, Inga. He’s placed the sign right here on our mantel. We are staying in a house that was built for someone else's life. It’s time we followed the light on our own like my ancestors did centuries ago.” Legend has it that Thor planted that piece of the Eidsvoll tree in the American heartland. Decades later, a massive, ancient Norwegian maple stood guard in the front yard of my grandmother's home in Washington State, spreading its roots half a world away from the valley where it all began. Legend has it this maple tree began as a sapling my ancestor, Thor, carried across the Atlantic from Norway. Long before I knew the story, I was beneath its branches, filling wheelbarrows with the leaves of a tree that had become part of our family's history. It’s easy to look back at scenes like that and imagine a man who lived entirely in heroic, cinematic moments. But history has a way of balancing out a legend, and family lore remembers the rest of the man, too. Because long after he followed that compass west, Thor had to deal with the daily realities of building a life on the land. And then, of course, there was the ram. A man can carry the voice of a god and the roots of his ancestors across an ocean and still, somehow, lose a turf war with livestock. His was a stubborn, ill-tempered ram who apparently took Thor's presence in the barnyard as a personal insult, and more than once sent him airborne into a hay bale with all the dignity of a man who absolutely deserved better. Thunder god by name, mildly defeated by a sheep in practice. I think that's the part of him I love most. It also explains a few things about my own father, who happens to be Thor's great-grandson. Big voice, big laugh, absolutely committed to the bit even when the moment calls for something more serious. I've been calling him "Ranger Rick" around here for exactly the same reason I'm telling you about a man named after a thunder god. Some personalities just don't skip a generation, they wait a few and come back louder. And he will do dramatic things I'm not ready to talk about yet, mostly because I haven't finished writing them, but I'll say this much: the story I'm building around him doesn't stay funny and it doesn't stay simple for long. There's a reason I keep circling back to him. Some family lines just carry more weight, and apparently more chaos, than others. Not every Thor carried a hammer So tonight, when you see lightning cracking across your screen and a name that sounds like it belongs in a comic book, know that it belongs to someone else first. A real man, a real voice, a real ongoing war with a ram, and a real story still being written, generations before anyone thought to put a hammer in his hand. Step onto The Sunstone Path Thor’s journey is just the beginning. The Sunstone Path is Book One of Before the Anchor, an upcoming 5-book historical fiction series tracking the resilience, faith, and untamed spirits of those who carved out a new future across generations. Want to follow the journey to publication? 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"A longtime tradition in my family while camping was going for walks around the campground. Since the group camp is across the main road from the actual campground, it was a bit of a walk to get down to the nature loop and the river. We decided to make the trek as one giant pack. Everyone we passed stopped and stared as we walked along with all twenty-five dogs." That scene sits in the pages of The Unbreakable Anchor, but it also sits in my childhood exactly as it happened. It wasn't written because it made a good story. It made a good story because it was normal to us. Twenty-five dogs walking down a gravel road toward the river, parents and grandparents and aunts and uncles and cousins all trailing behind, and enough wagging tails to make strangers stop in their tracks wondering what on earth they were looking at. We'd smile, keep walking, and think absolutely nothing of it. Every collar clinking, every leash tangled with three others, someone always yelling for a dog that had wandered off toward the river a beat too early. It probably looked like chaos from the outside. From the inside it just looked like family. Of course there were twenty-five dogs. There were always dogs. When I look back on my childhood, I don't remember a family that happened to own pets. I remember a family that built its life around them. My dad had a Pomeranian who somehow ruled the house despite weighing less than a bag of flour. We had a gentle German Shepherd and Golden Retriever mix who immediately took on the role of guardian of the family, quietly positioning himself between us and anything he thought might be a threat, one time that happened to be a park ranger with a weed whacker. We had cats, rabbits, hamsters, fish, and just about anything else that wandered into our lives and decided to stay. My parent's dog, Marley. Living life over the rainbow bridge. One of my earliest pets was a little bunny named Fufu. While most kids walked puppies around the neighborhood, I proudly walked my rabbit on a leash without ever questioning whether that might be considered odd. Fufu seemed perfectly content hopping beside me, and I was perfectly content pretending that every bunny in America probably went for afternoon walks. My grandpa eventually built a beautiful wooden hutch for my rabbit, and then got me a companion for her. The only problem was that he was a far better carpenter than he was at identifying rabbits. He assured us we had two females. We didn't. Before long, two rabbits somehow became ten. Instead of frustration, it became another family story, another memory we'd laugh about years later, because around our family, animals always seemed to have a way of multiplying, and somehow we always found room for one more. Grandpa was ahead of his time in more ways than one. Long before anyone had heard the word "catio," he built one. Most people bought scratching posts. Grandpa converted an entire six car garage into a playground for his cats, with ladders climbing to lofts, shelves stretching across the length of the garage, window perches, homemade toys, hiding places, and more room than some apartments. Today people proudly show off elaborate catios online. Grandpa quietly built one sometime back in the eighties simply because he loved his cats and thought they deserved it. He never once called it impressive. He just called it theirs. Then there was Gizmo, the first pet that was truly mine. When I got married, he stayed behind with my parents, where he continued proving that cats possess a remarkable talent for finding the worst possible places to nap. One afternoon my mom had left the dryer door open while folding laundry, and Gizmo climbed inside, curled up on the warm damp clothes, and fell fast asleep. Not knowing he was there, Mom shut the door and started the dryer. A few seconds later she heard a thump, then another, then another, and certain she'd accidentally left a shoe inside, she quickly opened the door. Instead, out leaped what she later described as the fluffiest cat she'd ever seen. Gizmo trotted away looking mildly annoyed by the whole experience, and somehow that ridiculous story has survived in our family almost as long as he did. Some stories earn their place in family lore just by being told enough times, and that one earned it fair and square. Those are the kinds of memories I find myself returning to lately. Maybe it's because my little pug, Lucy, has spent the last couple of weeks fighting vestibular syndrome. Watching her stumble, worrying over every meal, every nap, every small improvement, has a way of putting your heart on constant alert. It also has a way of sending your mind backward through every animal who ever left paw prints on your life. You start reaching for the old stories because the new ones feel too fragile to sit with for very long. Photo of my dog Buddy and my son as a toddler. Throughout The Unbreakable Anchor, I lean on my pugs more than almost anyone else in the book, and each one of them earned that place in their own particular way. Charlie was a rescue, thirty pounds when we got him, and he used to howl in the car straight up like a beagle, which remains one of the funniest things I have ever heard come out of a pug's mouth. Buddy was the gentlest and the funniest of them all. He had a great "love" in his life, his giant stuffed turtle that was bigger then he was. He was the pug who lived through three toddlers and never once made a sour face, not when they pulled his tail, not when they pulled his ears, not when they colored on him or buried him halfway in the sandbox. He took all of it in stride. He was also a stinker in the best way, the only pug I've ever had who wanted to play catch me if you can, tearing through the house just to see if you'd chase him. He was, in a very real sense, my workout routine. Then came Molly and Lucy. They never tried to replace the dogs who came before them. They simply became themselves. Lucy is attached to me in a way that goes beyond ordinary dog devotion. She has to be near me, touching me in some form, at all times. She used to perch on the back of the couch like a cat, watching over the room from up high. She is fiercely food motivated and barks relentlessly the moment dinner time approaches, refusing to let anyone get off schedule. She's independent too, in her own contradictory way, only letting you pet her when she decides she feels like it, and more nights than not I find her curled up on the back of my neck while I sleep. Molly is the sweetest, most gentle pug we have ever had. She loves camping, and more than that she loves having the whole family together. Nothing makes her happier than everyone being in the same room at once. A few years ago she got a Grinch toy for Christmas, and she has carried it around ever since, looking for it every night before bed and sleeping cuddled up against it. She never complains about anything. She is always curled up at my feet. She is an example of resilience, never faltering in spite of her special needs. She is a role model for all the humans that surround her. My pug Molly sporting her stylish wheels. There is no version of my adult life that doesn't have one of these dogs somewhere in the frame, and not in the background either. Right up front, usually taking up more than their fair share of the bed. "I whispered 'I love you,' my voice cracking as I hung up the phone, and I sat there in the dark, the only sound in the house being the rhythmic, oblivious snoring of the pugs who were both up on the bed, nestled in my lap." That's another moment from The Unbreakable Anchor, and it's part of why the title means what it does. This quote is from a scene in the book through one of the toughest moments in my life. When I began writing my memoir, I thought I was tracing the people who anchored our family through life's storms. Somewhere along the way I realized I had overlooked the four legged members of that crew. Behind my desk hangs one of my favorite things in our home, a wall I made, a collage, of black and white portraits, one photograph for every dog who has been part of our family. Some of those faces crossed the rainbow bridge years ago. Some are snoring in the next room as I write this. A few still need to be added, because like every family tree, this one is never really finished. Sometimes I catch myself standing in front of that wall longer than I intended, because every face represents a chapter, a season, a memory, a piece of home. I've started to notice that I don't look at that wall the way I look at other photographs. There's no posed smile to critique, no bad lighting to wish away, just a face that once leaned into my hand exactly when I needed it to. Family wall of dogs past and present. From twenty-five dogs wandering through a campground, to rabbits multiplying faster than the speed of sound, to cats climbing homemade lofts, to one extraordinarily fluffy cat emerging from a dryer, to a howling rescue pug and his gentle turtle-loving best friend, to the two who are with me now, one perched on the back of my neck and one curled around a well-loved Grinch, I can't imagine my story without them. They've been woven through every chapter. They've celebrated beside us, grieved beside us, grown old beside us, and loved us without ever asking for an explanation. Some people collect photographs of places. Some collect souvenirs. Apparently, my family collected animals, and looking back now, I don't think we could have built The Unbreakable Anchor without them. Some of the strongest anchors in our family's story never said a single word. They just kept showing up, paw on the knee, snore on the pillow, a warm weight against your leg on the nights you needed it most. That's the whole secret, really. They never needed the big gesture. They just never left. Some anchors walk on two legs, and some on four. Their paw prints can be found throughout The Unbreakable Anchor, arriving this fall. Subscribe to my newsletter and be the first to hear about the book's release, new blog posts, and everything happening in the world of TJ Nilsdatter.